I am responsible

I am responsible

So often I want to blame others for how I’m feeling.  It seems easier (at least in my rational mind) to make it someone else’s fault rather than accept responsibility.  After all, if I accept responsibility it means that I could have done something different.  For most of us, this doesn’t set well.  We prefer that we are right, they are wrong, and that they change so we can be happy.

If you’re anything like me, you aren’t so thrilled with the news that you are 100% responsible for the results you currently have in your life.  It means that there was lack of motivation, lack of purpose, lack of discipline, maybe even no clear desire, no definite starting point and destination.

If you want something different it means that you don’t have all the answers (yet).  Whatever you chose, just remember you are 100% responsible for your words, feelings, and actions.  If the problem lies within you than so does the answer.

 How much to you want to make a change?  The greater the desire, the better the chance of success.